從來不想費力氣讓我的孩子去爬藤。如果她自己有原動力,我會給以鼓勵。我從來認為這個需要自己的動力。
也看到了一些上藤校的例子,分數考得很高,卻沒被錄取。這已經說明了一些問題。全家人一塊抑郁。然好第二年再轉到藤校。
只會讀書,人生很多該有的都欠缺。比如穿著打扮,找男朋友。。。。。。
先建設好personal skill。以後幹啥都可做好。
hongwei 寫道: |
The Daughter in to any level universty will meet that level Boy
for exsample:at UBC will meet top level mainland china boy
at Toronto or meterial will meet whole canada top level boy
at USA will meet top of whole world top boy
THats importent for girls
because married good is best then read book good
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There are too many Chinese in UT.
Please go to McGill if you want to meet Whole Canada top level boy.
浙大,科技大,南開,復旦,同濟,廈大,中山大,北師大,經貿大,人大等等在國內都是名校/一類院校。
而且不少學科的水平優於北大清華的,但是就在國際上的知名度以及綜合鑒定,北大,清華依然是頂級的。
大樹 寫道: |
勉強算,呵呵 也膜拜一下。好好培養你家孩子。不過,加拿大的中學教學,在世界范圍內都算不嚴格的,孩子自己努力很重要。
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其實真沒必要緊張,在北美,除非你孩子是天才,否則努力和不太努力,將來工作後收入差距並不大,我希望我孩子不要那麼辛苦,能多點享受生活, 這不就是我們移民的原因之一嗎。 在北美,我覺得,找一份體面的工作還是不難得。看我們,在加拿大算是半文盲,不也過得不錯嗎。
大樹 寫道: |
There are too many Chinese in UT.
Please go to McGill if you want to meet Whole Canada top level boy.
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you are right!
we have 3girls 4-5years ago was at McGill all my frends's daughter
after one year back one,she's parents all Master degree
after 4years back one to Nurse school because ....they do not wants says any word..
after 5years one still at McGill can not passd ...
they was all wants became to a doctor
they all lost
my Daughter still wants going to McGill even i tell her going to UBC

春月 寫道: |
其實真沒必要緊張,在北美,除非你孩子是天才,否則努力和不太努力,將來工作後收入差距並不大,我希望我孩子不要那麼辛苦,能多點享受生活, 這不就是我們移民的原因之一嗎。 在北美,我覺得,找一份體面的工作還是不難得。看我們,在加拿大算是半文盲,不也過得不錯嗎。
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說的是。不過,如果你孩子真是一科學家的料,也別浪費了。順其自然,水到渠成吧。
commonsense 寫道: |
Agreed. Eduction is no more than one of the components to build the career success.
I admire you as a very successful person.
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這結論從哪來的?我就一普通大媽。想買愛馬仕,還分不清真假。