为人父母不需要考试但却需要学习

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语言是带情绪的，能给人以温暖，也能给人带来伤害。言语上的伤害比外在伤害严重，外在伤痕是看得见的，言语上的伤害却是无形的。

Language is emotional, can give people warmth, can also bring harm. The verbal injury is more serious than the external injury. The external injury is visible, but the verbal injury is invisible.

心理学家苏珊·福沃德博士曾在书中说：“小孩是不会区分事实和笑话的，他们会相信父母说的有关自己的话，并将其变为自己的观念。”

Psychologist Dr. Susan Foward once said in the book: "Children will not distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what their parents say about themselves and turn it into their own ideas."

有不少父母“擅长”打击教育，但这种打击教育并不能起到“为了孩子好”的目的，反而会给孩子的成长带来消极影响。

There are many parents who are "good at" hitting education, but this kind of hitting education does not serve the purpose of "for the good of children", but will bring negative effects on children's growth.

经常被打击的孩子，往往十分自卑，常常陷入自我否定和自我怀疑的情绪中去。

Children who are often attacked often have low self-esteem and often fall into the mood of self-denial and self-doubt.

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来自父母的打击，所造成的伤害不仅体现在当下，它更像一根针，透过绵长的岁月之中，时时刺在子女的心头。

The damage caused by the blow from parents is not only reflected in the present, it is more like a needle, which pierces the hearts of children through the long years.

经常夸奖孩子，给孩子积极的暗示与鼓励，孩子会表现地越来越出色。

Always praise children, give them positive hints and encouragement, and children will perform better and better.

在心理学中，有一个词语叫“皮格马利翁效应”。

In psychology, there is a word called "Pygmalion effect".