@Harina 你的貼子裡說你用英文argue"沒有這方面的英語詞匯儲備", 真心希望我可以幫助你,如果你用中文告訴我你想說什麼,也許我可以幫助選擇英文詞匯 to fight against bullying in office, shall we give it a try?
阿牛人間等一票只想'息事寧人'的cowards, shame on all of you! Remember, bully never stops until someone stands up and fights back! Any tolerance of bullying is bullying too.
@Harina
用英文argue其實很簡單,you don't need big words, keep it plain and simple, only the fact matters. 不必用自己的短處去搏殺對方的長處,also, please take the intelligence level of your opponents into consideration, 如果你說的太含蓄了,智商低的對方幾乎肯定聽不懂, once I was be sarcastic when I talked to a 紅的發紫自命不可一世的群主 at Westca,she didn't understand my sarcasm, so I shot my own foot.
其實很多中國移民都有受中國儒家的傳統教育的影響,太過善良,總是閉目思己過,善良的想自己做錯了什麼而被singled out and bullied, and forget some people simply are assholes. 我希望在加西我們可以互相交流互相幫助how to deal with assholes, those horrible horrible people。Regretfully to say simple truth is there are many of them out there.
@Harina, 笑裡藏刀口蜜腹劍是the fundamental skill of all management positions. 多練習就好了,practice matters, 我現在有時候就對著鏡子 practice how to insult people with a big nice friendly smile. 我個人是很討厭這種做法,但,時代變了,我們沒有選擇,必須與時俱進,remember 4 years ago, Michelle Obama famously said 'when he goes low, we go high!', see what happened? Donald Trump became the president of US! now everybody learned "if he goes low, we go lower!"
其實很多中國移民都有受中國儒家的傳統教育的影響,太過善良,總是閉目思己過,善良的想自己做錯了什麼而被singled out and bullied, and forget some people simply are assholes. 我希望在加西我們可以互相交流互相幫助how to deal with assholes, those horrible horrible people。Regretfully to say simple truth is there are many of them out there.
United We Stand, Divided We Fall. 這個說法對一個家庭,一個族群,一個國家都適用。一個熱心於窩裡斗的族群是危險的。