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為人父母不需要考試 但卻需要學習
為人父母不需要考試 但卻需要學習為人父母不需要考試 但卻需要學習
語言是帶情緒的，能給人以溫暖，也能給人帶來傷害。言語上的傷害比外在傷害嚴重，外在傷痕是看得見的，言語上的傷害卻是無形的。
Language is emotional, can give people warmth, can also bring harm. The verbal injury is more serious than the external injury. The external injury is visible, but the verbal injury is invisible.
心理學家蘇珊·福沃德博士曾在書中說：“小孩是不會區分事實和笑話的，他們會相信父母說的有關自己的話，並將其變為自己的觀念。”
Psychologist Dr. Susan Foward once said in the book: "Children will not distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what their parents say about themselves and turn it into their own ideas."
有不少父母“擅長”打擊教育，但這種打擊教育並不能起到“為了孩子好”的目的，反而會給孩子的成長帶來消極影響。
There are many parents who are "good at" hitting education, but this kind of hitting education does not serve the purpose of "for the good of children", but will bring negative effects on children's growth.
經常被打擊的孩子，往往十分自卑，常常陷入自我否定和自我懷疑的情緒中去。
Children who are often attacked often have low self-esteem and often fall into the mood of self-denial and self-doubt.
來自父母的打擊，所造成的傷害不僅體現在當下，它更像一根針，透過綿長的歲月之中，時時刺在子女的心頭。
The damage caused by the blow from parents is not only reflected in the present, it is more like a needle, which pierces the hearts of children through the long years.
經常誇獎孩子，給孩子積極的暗示與鼓勵，孩子會表現地越來越出色。
Always praise children, give them positive hints and encouragement, and children will perform better and better.
在心理學中，有一個詞語叫“皮格馬利翁效應”。
In psychology, there is a word called "Pygmalion effect".
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Language is emotional, can give people warmth, can also bring harm. The verbal injury is more serious than the external injury. The external injury is visible, but the verbal injury is invisible.
心理學家蘇珊·福沃德博士曾在書中說：“小孩是不會區分事實和笑話的，他們會相信父母說的有關自己的話，並將其變為自己的觀念。”
Psychologist Dr. Susan Foward once said in the book: "Children will not distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what their parents say about themselves and turn it into their own ideas."
有不少父母“擅長”打擊教育，但這種打擊教育並不能起到“為了孩子好”的目的，反而會給孩子的成長帶來消極影響。
There are many parents who are "good at" hitting education, but this kind of hitting education does not serve the purpose of "for the good of children", but will bring negative effects on children's growth.
經常被打擊的孩子，往往十分自卑，常常陷入自我否定和自我懷疑的情緒中去。
Children who are often attacked often have low self-esteem and often fall into the mood of self-denial and self-doubt.
來自父母的打擊，所造成的傷害不僅體現在當下，它更像一根針，透過綿長的歲月之中，時時刺在子女的心頭。
The damage caused by the blow from parents is not only reflected in the present, it is more like a needle, which pierces the hearts of children through the long years.
經常誇獎孩子，給孩子積極的暗示與鼓勵，孩子會表現地越來越出色。
Always praise children, give them positive hints and encouragement, and children will perform better and better.
在心理學中，有一個詞語叫“皮格馬利翁效應”。
In psychology, there is a word called "Pygmalion effect".
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