@Harina 你的贴子里说你用英文argue"没有这方面的英语词汇储备", 真心希望我可以帮助你,如果你用中文告诉我你想说什么,也许我可以帮助选择英文词汇 to fight against bullying in office, shall we give it a try?
阿牛人间等一票只想'息事宁人'的cowards, shame on all of you! Remember, bully never stops until someone stands up and fights back! Any tolerance of bullying is bullying too.
@Harina
用英文argue其实很简单,you don't need big words, keep it plain and simple, only the fact matters. 不必用自己的短处去搏杀对方的长处,also, please take the intelligence level of your opponents into consideration, 如果你说的太含蓄了,智商低的对方几乎肯定听不懂, once I was be sarcastic when I talked to a 红的发紫自命不可一世的群主 at Westca,she didn't understand my sarcasm, so I shot my own foot.
其实很多中国移民都有受中国儒家的传统教育的影响,太过善良,总是闭目思己过,善良的想自己做错了什么而被singled out and bullied, and forget some people simply are assholes. 我希望在加西我们可以互相交流互相帮助how to deal with assholes, those horrible horrible people。Regretfully to say simple truth is there are many of them out there.
@Harina, 笑里藏刀口蜜腹剑是the fundamental skill of all management positions. 多练习就好了,practice matters, 我现在有时候就对着镜子 practice how to insult people with a big nice friendly smile. 我个人是很讨厌这种做法,但,时代变了,我们没有选择,必须与时俱进,remember 4 years ago, Michelle Obama famously said 'when he goes low, we go high!', see what happened? Donald Trump became the president of US! now everybody learned "if he goes low, we go lower!"
其实很多中国移民都有受中国儒家的传统教育的影响,太过善良,总是闭目思己过,善良的想自己做错了什么而被singled out and bullied, and forget some people simply are assholes. 我希望在加西我们可以互相交流互相帮助how to deal with assholes, those horrible horrible people。Regretfully to say simple truth is there are many of them out there.
United We Stand, Divided We Fall. 这个说法对一个家庭,一个族群,一个国家都适用。一个热心于窝里斗的族群是危险的。